Big blocks are good for decentralisation

Because they keep fees low. No way am I going to run a full node for a crypto with median $20-60 fees. Fuck, for each median transaction fee I could buy a 1TB HDD that can hold the entire BCH blockchain. Shit, I used to run a full Bitcoin Core node but now I don’t because it’s no use to me with such astronomical fees. Why did these idiots think that high fees would result in more decentralisation? It obviously doesn’t.