Buying kyc free

Hey all, I want to buy btc for my brother as he can’t because he’s getting divorce soon and I would like to buy and send his wallet.

But I want to do it kyc free. I checked the options and it seems the platforms like hodlhodl.com is the option. But I’m not sure how safe the exchange is because last time I tried the seller acted a bit dodgy. I also find the price super high on that platform. What’s the best way to do it? I keep having this problem with bitcoin stacking. How’s everyone doing it? Can I find reliable bitcoiners to meet in my city and do it in person?