Why BCH Not XMR?

so everyone here is talking about how bch is amazing, and yeah it's cool,

I mean it's fast, low-fees, and can be used in real day-to-day purchases. but why not xmr?

I mean at the end of the day bch is a public blockchain currency (Which Is Worse Than Credit Cards).

xmr is fast, low-fees, and a truly private, and decentralized cryptocurrency.

and please don't talk about cashfusion, they themselves say it's not as good as xmr.

so I just wanna understand why you guys are so culty about bch even when there is another better alternative?